Buchi Emecheta: The Joys Of Motherhood

abecedarian

Reader
What an amazing little book. Besides the insights to Nigerian tribal customs and how they've changed with all the influx of outside(Western) influences, the author hits the nail on the head about how hard moms work to earn those 'joys' of motherhood. She also hits it pretty well about how no matter how hard we try to steer the offspring in the 'way they should go', the kids will chose their own path, and that path might not look at all like we imagined it would. All in all, I recommend this book highly.
 

Mirabell

Former Member
wow. thanks. wiki'd her and she does sound interesting. never heard of her (yes, ashamed I am).

if I may, a question: how is the writing?
 

abecedarian

Reader
This was a tough book to put down; I needed to see what else would befall the poor heroine. Emecheta's characters seem as real as anyone on my block or in my town, yet I felt I learned a little about Nigerian tribal life and how the influx of western culture changed it.
 

Stewart

Administrator
Staff member
I think he means, by "writing", the actual prose style. Dense, light, poetic, etc.
 

abecedarian

Reader
I think he means, by "writing", the actual prose style. Dense, light, poetic, etc.


Hmm..Definately not light or overly dense.. and when I think of poetic prose examples like The Sailor Who Fell From Grace with the Sea or Mia Couto's Voices Made Night, I'd have to rule out the term poetic too. If anything, the style is more earthy and concrete. There's also a low undertone of humor; The title is very tongue in cheek. Without resorting writing in dialect, Emecheta manages to sound as if the reader is listening to her tell this story in person.
 

kratsy

New member
new member jumping in here . . .

my favorite part about this book is the way that it depicts the lives of a variety of different women. there is the mother, her co-wife and her co-wife's daughters. there are the women that live in the village, and there are the other women that live in the city while their husbands work for the white people. there are also women of different economic classes and with different degrees of education. this is what makes the book really unique - it shows the variety of women's experiences in Nigeria before the end of colonialism.
 
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I just finished this book over the weekend. I was quite astounded by it. This is the review that I posted to Good Reads.

"Wow. I think I was in a trance when I was reading most of this work. It was as though it was the history of a nation growing up and being entirely unsure that progress was being made, told through the parable of a woman's experience as a mother. This mission in story-telling is one that I approach with excitement - both William Trevor (The Story of Lucy Gault) and Salman Rushdie (Midnight's Children) have done it so well, and with devastating powers of observation. The scope here, though, is smaller than Rushdie and much grander than Trevor. It is a seismic shift, a great memoire and history. And written with startling compassion.

I was stunned how the transitions from period to period were so seamless in this story. Interior to Lagos to Wartime to Postwar. The acquisition of monies and banks and the collapse of traditions followed by the maintenance of traditions. It is a beautiful, complex world, where change and continuity overlap in the lives of the protagonist just as it does in the reader's - and where the protagonist is caught in the always confusing whirlwind of possibilities in both the present and the future. Just like the reader.

As I suggested above this is a history of Nigeria in the mid-twentieth century, told in the never satisfied but occasionally pleasant story of a mother. Nnu Ego. A beautiful mother - capable and caring and hard-working. The daughter of a great chief and hunter - attacked by an elephant and survived! - and the mother of a highly educator man (who works in the United States) and another man (who works in Canada). She is accomplished. But she doesn't realize it. And you constantly think that what she works towards, as a mother, is all for naught. The honour of her family - of her husband - is her goal, and yet she cannot achieve it no matter how much she tries.

Which makes this a very sad book. You, the reader, feel pity for Nnu. Nnu herself feels pity for herself eventually.

This story, though, is the story of motherhood and of nation, yes, but also of much more than this. Colonialism and capitalism, of change and continuity, tradition and modernity, childhood and family, friendship and work. It is a great mess - a web of believability. And this is what gives it the power it needs to be successful. Which it is, by all measures.

This is the kind of book I would want to give my mother if I knew she wouldn't be deeply saddened by it - but I have this sense that she would manage to relate to it all too well. It is beautiful."

I would highly recommend this novel - particularly to anybody wanting to add some more books to their African Literature reading lists.
 
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