Patrick Murtha
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^ Please stay and continue to offer your insights! I second your thoughts on sarcasm and snark (even though I have some history with them ? ).
I appreciate the apology and understand there was no ill intent. It can be especially challenging to read tone in short posts which is why I asked for clarification. I assumed you were being playful, but without emojis as a hint, I wasn't completely sure. In the end, I hope we can move past this misunderstanding so that both you and errequatro remain on the jury and share your valuable opinions.I apologized before and said I was just joking.
I apologize again, I didn't know my comment was going to give this much offense, but that is no excuse. I'm deeply sorry and I will not do it again. Please stay in the jury, I'll take myself out of it for this year and all future years since I'm the one who's in the wrong.
I greatly respect your opinions and value what you bring to the forum, so I regret that a poor joke on my part was this hurtful. I hope we can put this behind us, but if you cannot forgive me, I understand. Please just notice that there was no malicious intent on my part.
I share your line of thinking. I know we agreed at the outset only to nominate living authors, but I don't recall that we planned for the possibility of a finalist passing away over the course of our deliberations. Given the proximity to the announcement of our award, and the lack of adequate time to name an alternate, I don't necessarily think Javier Marias should be dropped from consideration, but I also see the honorary Wolfie as a reasonable compromise.I don't normally appreciate sarcastic condescencion when not warranted. ("A true match for the ages." Was that really necessary?)
The situation is very peculiar. We didn't nominate a dead writer (he was alive when we made the choice), he died a few days before any decision was going to be reached and, more importantly, we have spent a whole year evaluating his work.
Plus, it's easier (and unfair) to win against someone one is competing against when that person died.
If one of the other candidates died, would we award the "last person standing" just for the sake of it? Would that truly reflect the deliberation, and thought process behind the decision? Would it, alas, be representative?
If my first choice was Marias, am I forced to give 3 points to a writer I don't think deserves it?
So, no, it's not the same.
Even the Nobel Prize allows for such an occurance. (A writer can still be awarded if he/she died after he/she was chosen.)
For a literature forum, I am suprised that we re taking things with such a lack of nuance. Literature does not mean literally.
I honestly think he could remain in contention, but because there is a rule, I understand it is complicated. So the solution suggested elsewhere was to award an "honorary" WLF Prize and decided between the other two. Seems like a good compromise.
On a side note:
I don't come to the forum to vent petty sarcastic comments or to show off or anything of the sort. I participate simply because of my love for literature and the otherwise friendly environment most members create here. To exchange opinions and views. To learn. To discover new writers.
If I wanted to be condescended to, I certainly would not choose this forum.
Granted, you are entitled your opinion. But if this is how you choose to manifest it, I can always resign from coming here.
In fact, you just achieved my retracting from voting on the WLF prize. I will not be coherced in these terms.
Consider myself out of the "jury".
My apologies to the rest of the community.
We could, of course, issue Javier Marias an honorary Wolfie regardless,I also see the honorary Wolfie as a reasonable compromise.
I second Stevie, and ask that both of you remain in the jury.I appreciate the apology and understand there was no ill intent. It can be especially challenging to read tone in short posts which is why I asked for clarification. I assumed you were being playful, but without emojis as a hint, I wasn't completely sure. In the end, I hope we can move past this misunderstanding so that both you and errequatro remain on the jury and share your valuable opinions.
Apologies accepted. As Stevie B said, it is difficult to detect sarcasm when it comes with no indication that it is indeed sarcasm. It doesn't work in the written form.I apologized before and said I was just joking.
I apologize again, I didn't know my comment was going to give this much offense, but that is no excuse. I'm deeply sorry and I will not do it again. Please stay in the jury, I'll take myself out of it for this year and all future years since I'm the one who's in the wrong.
I greatly respect your opinions and value what you bring to the forum, so I regret that a poor joke on my part was this hurtful. I hope we can put this behind us, but if you cannot forgive me, I understand. Please just notice that there was no malicious intent on my part.
I don't normally appreciate sarcastic condescencion when not warranted. ("A true match for the ages." Was that really necessary?)
The situation is very peculiar. We didn't nominate a dead writer (he was alive when we made the choice), he died a few days before any decision was going to be reached and, more importantly, we have spent a whole year evaluating his work.
Plus, it's easier (and unfair) to win against someone one is competing against when that person died.
If one of the other candidates died, would we award the "last person standing" just for the sake of it? Would that truly reflect the deliberation, and thought process behind the decision? Would it, alas, be representative?
If my first choice was Marias, am I forced to give 3 points to a writer I don't think deserves it?
So, no, it's not the same.
Even the Nobel Prize allows for such an occurance. (A writer can still be awarded if he/she died after he/she was chosen.)
For a literature forum, I am suprised that we re taking things with such a lack of nuance. Literature does not mean literally.
I honestly think he could remain in contention, but because there is a rule, I understand it is complicated. So the solution suggested elsewhere was to award an "honorary" WLF Prize and decided between the other two. Seems like a good compromise.
On a side note:
I don't come to the forum to vent petty sarcastic comments or to show off or anything of the sort. I participate simply because of my love for literature and the otherwise friendly environment most members create here. To exchange opinions and views. To learn. To discover new writers.
If I wanted to be condescended to, I certainly would not choose this forum.
Granted, you are entitled your opinion. But if this is how you choose to manifest it, I can always resign from coming here.
In fact, you just achieved my retracting from voting on the WLF prize. I will not be coherced in these terms.
Consider myself out of the "jury".
My apologies to the rest of the community.
Thanks!I took the liberty to move the posts exclusively related to the WLF prize concerning Javier Marías from his obituary, so there's nothing but a tribute to him there. Please continue debating about the author here in regards to the prize; I hope you all understand this action is only meant to keeping things tidy
I'm against the idea of awarding Marias or anyone an honorary prize. Plus who's to say Marias won't win outright regardless
Sorry, I should have done that days ago...Maybe we need another of bartleby's polls/votes?
Sorry, Bartleby, but I'm not seeing the poll.Sorry, I should have done that days ago...
Anyway, there we have it. The poll is open above, hopefully people will see it and vote for it soon. Let us know everyone what action we should take from now on !
It's at the top of the page. If it's still not showing, please tell usSorry, Bartleby, but I'm not seeing the poll.
I'm using my phone and I can see it...It's all the way at the top of the page; maybe you need to log in from your computer? ?
Got it now. Thanks!I can see the poll with my phone.